Thursday, February 21, 2019

Lagom, a Swedish Way to Enjoy Every Aspect of Our Life

My sister rarely interested in any book. When we were a child, I am the only one who obsessed with Harry Potter, also the only one who excited when Eragon series come out.

Few weeks ago, she recommend this book. Excitedly, even she bought it herself from online because she could not find it anywhere in book stores. The title is Lagom: Not too little, not too much. Its a typical motivational translation book with some theory and stories. A guide to living peacefully from the Swedish culture.

I've read several motivational books, most of it about scholarship, career, and start up. Honestly I never finish them all because the content sometimes too predictable. All of the good words to motivate, but my rebel self cannot gulp all of them once. I prefer to dive into the short novels with some fantasy and tragedy.

From the book itself, I see that it will never become my life guidance but I still give it a try. Interesting but I have a hard time understand the words because it translated from english to bahasa Indonesia. Some awkward words displayed there. Maybe I should read the english version another time 

The book taught us to keep everything simple, another way to feel enough. Maybe the term itself close to 'Zen' in Japan where people keep the simplicity in every aspect of their life.

Lagom describe why IKEA famous worldwide and why H&M always created basic simple shirt but become large in a market.
The idea is to keep everything effective, efficient yet functional and visually pleasing.

The definition of lagom itself complicated and flexible enough to describe every situation. From choosing your furniture and clothes, choose your way of work.

What I like about this book is to distance ourselves from every thing we do not need. To keep our house small, to refrain from buying thing every week. Less things we buy, less responsibility, and less problem. Owning a lot of things makes us  miserable. We get the stress from keeping our things.

I agree with several things written in that book. Especially when the book said about knowing our capacity and not to burden ourself with things we do not need. Bravely saying no but striving to work hard on our passion.

However, what I feels lacking is about interpersonal communication. I  am still wondering if swedish people cold to stranger or never had any trash talk because they like it straight and direct. I cannot judge either since I do not know any further about their culture.

Afterall, this book is interesting to read but I need to find english version to fully understand the content.

NB : I push myself to read book everyday. You can suggest me any book to review.
In my studio where I work, we open new segmen: BukaBuku, means OpenBook. We will review one or more book and invite people to discuss about an interesting book

Surprise Element

Yesterday I uninstalled apps related to musics and deleted all of the songs I've downloaded

No specific reason, except for saving up some of data package

I started to bring books everywhere or keep books in my smartphone to read

The experiences growing in me.
Books gives me something special rather than scrolling through my instagram feeds

It taught me to keep on holding what you believe eventhough there are no way you can escape from problems

I also love the suprise element in every book I've been reading. I left no expectation and keep my eye on every pages, pharagraph, and words.

It taught me to accept the idea that we never escape from everyday challenges. Lots of new perspective and somehow helping me growing up

Recently, growing up and celebrate birthday becomes sucks. There are a lot of people who expecting me as an adult, to achieve something that I myself don't know when it will happen.

Surprise element, uncertainty, zero expectation of negative or positive experiences. That is what I need to enjoy right now. To fully enjoy present, and a bit laid back about future. To love myself more, to know when I should hold back and expressing all my thought

Also, to not afraid saying that I am tired, or when I need to cry. To bravely saying what I needs to say.

Right now, right here,
Me writing my thoughts while listen to radio. Surprising myself with a list of good songs that I never heard before

23.26
Commuter line to Universitas Pancasila

Friday, February 15, 2019

It's okay to be tired
Just take a rest, put the weight off from your shoulder

Tomorrow will be fine
You will be okay

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