Friday, July 31, 2015

Friday, July 17, 2015

Woow.. I'm an ENFP O__O

I don't really keen on personality quizes, character games, etc but this website makes me curious about personality I have. Recently a lot of my friend that share their result and almost all of them ar INFJ! I don't really know what it means but I can take the conclusion that many of people that really active in social media is INFJ. Maybe they are introvert but talkative in social media. At first, I think I'm one of them. So, I take this quiz to fulfill my curiousness ~~

I really shocked when I get the result. Even I'm not close an inch to what they call INFJ! My result start with E, is it means I'm Extrovert person??

Nah, I doubt with that, but the explaination got me double shocked. They talking about what I'm doing all of this time... Almost creepy that they got almost of them are true indeed.

This is the explanation:

It doesn't interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for – and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing. It doesn't interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool – for love – for your dreams – for the adventure of being alive.
Oriah Mountain Dreamer
The ENFP personality is a true free spirit. They are often the life of the party, but unlike Explorers, they are less interested in the sheer excitement and pleasure of the moment than they are in enjoying the social and emotional connections they make with others. Charming, independent, energetic and compassionate, the 7% of the population that they comprise can certainly be felt in any crowd.

You Can Change the World With Just an Idea

ENFP personalityMore than just sociable people-pleasers though, ENFPs, like all their Diplomat cousins, are shaped by their Intuitive (N) quality, allowing them to read between the lines with curiosity and energy. They tend to see life as a big, complex puzzle where everything is connected – but unlike Analysts, who tend to see that puzzle as a series of systemic machinations, ENFPs see it through a prism of emotion, compassion and mysticism, and are always looking for a deeper meaning.

ENFPs are fiercely independent, and much more than stability and security, they crave creativity and freedom.
Many other types are likely to find these qualities irresistible, and if they've found a cause that sparks their imagination, ENFPs will bring an energy that oftentimes thrusts them into the spotlight, held up by their peers as a leader and a guru – but this isn't always where independence-loving ENFPs want to be. Worse still if they find themselves beset by the administrative tasks and routine maintenance that can accompany a leadership position. ENFPs' self-esteem is dependent on their ability to come up with original solutions, and they need to know that they have the freedom to be innovative – they can quickly lose patience or become dejected if they get trapped in a boring role.

Don't Lose That 'Little Spark of Madness'

Luckily, ENFPs know how to relax, and they are perfectly capable of switching from a passionate, driven idealist in the workplace to that imaginative and enthusiastic free spirit on the dance floor, often with a suddenness that can surprise even their closest friends. Being in the mix also gives them a chance to connect emotionally with others, giving them cherished insight into what motivates their friends and colleagues. They believe that everyone should take the time to recognize and express their feelings, and their empathy and sociability make that a natural conversation topic.

The ENFP personality type needs to be careful, however – if they rely too much on their intuition, assume or anticipate too much about a friend's motivations, they can misread the signals and frustrate plans that a more straightforward approach would have made simple. This kind of social stress is the bugbear that keeps harmony-focused Diplomats awake at night. ENFPs are very emotional and sensitive, and when they step on someone's toes, they both feel it.

ENFPs will spend a lot of time exploring social relationships, feelings and ideas before they find something that really rings true. But when they finally do find their place in the world, their imagination, empathy and courage are likely to produce incredible results.

And... just look what they write for my career...

“Can't I fly helicopters AND be an oceanographer who writes songs and cooks?” It's a big world out there – perhaps even a little too big. ENFPs are fascinated by new ideas, both in terms of developments in fields they are already familiar with, and when new subjects come along. The trick for people with the ENFP personality type is to take advantage of this quality, this wonder with the magnificent breadth and detail in the world, and to use it to propel themselves further and deeper than others are willing or able to go.

If there's a challenge ENFPs face when selecting a career, it isn't that they lack talent or options or drive, it's that there are so many things out there that are just cool.
The Opening of a Door Can Be a Wonderfully Joyous Moment

Chief among ENFPs' talents is their people skills, a quality that is even more valuable now than ever. Even in traditional Analyst strongholds like engineering, systems analysis and the sciences, ENFPs' ability to network and match the communication styles of their audience means that even as they explore new challenges on their own, they will be able to work with others, explore others' perspectives and glean new insights into their projects. Much of modern progress stems from incorporating other studies into typically disassociated fields, and no one is better equipped to merge broad interests than talented, energetic and future-minded ENFPs.

And while Thinking types may be better at applying logic to systems and machines, people with the ENFP personality type are able to apply that same logic to human interactions and networks, using their exceptional social perception to find out what makes people tick. This lends ENFPs a solid foothold in any human science or service, from psychology, counseling and teaching to politics, diplomacy and detective work. All of these fields have another important similarity: they are in constant development, shifting, presenting new angles and new approaches. It's simply not possible to be good in these fields and content with the way things are, and this is where ENFPs truly shine.


ENFP Strengths

Curious – When it comes to new ideas, ENFPs aren't interested in brooding – they want to go out and experience things, and don't hesitate to step out of their comfort zones to do so. ENFPs are imaginative and open-minded, seeing all things as part of a big, mysterious puzzle called life.

Observant – ENFPs believe that there are no irrelevant actions, that every shift in sentiment, every move and every idea is part of something bigger. To satisfy their curiosity, ENFPs try to notice all of these things, and to never miss a moment.

Energetic and Enthusiastic – As they observe, forming new connections and ideas, ENFPs won't hold their tongues – they're excited about their findings, and share them with anyone who'll listen. This infectious enthusiasm has the dual benefit of giving ENFPs a chance to make more social connections, and of giving them a new source of information and experience, as they fit their new friends' opinions into their existing ideas.

Excellent Communicators – It's a good thing that ENFPs have such strong people skills, or they'd never express these ideas. ENFPs enjoy both small talk and deep, meaningful conversations, which are just two sides of the same coin for them, and are adept at steering conversations towards their desired subjects in ways that feel completely natural and unforced.

Know How to Relax – It's not all “nature of the cosmos” discussions with ENFPs – people with this personality type know that sometimes, nothing is as important as simply having fun and experiencing life's joys. That Intuitive trait lets ENFPs know that it's time to shake things up, and these wild bursts of enthusiastic energy can surprise even their closest friends.

Very Popular and Friendly – All this adaptability and spontaneity comes together to form a person who is approachable, interesting and exciting, with a cooperative and altruistic spirit and friendly, empathetic disposition. ENFPs get along with pretty much everyone, and their circles of friends stretch far and wide.

ENFP Weaknesses

Poor Practical Skills – When it comes to conceiving ideas and starting projects, especially involving other people, ENFPs have exceptional talent. Unfortunately their skill with upkeep, administration, and follow-through on those projects struggles. Without more hands-on people to help push day-to-day things along, ENFPs' ideas are likely to remain just that – ideas.

Find it Difficult to Focus – ENFPs are natural explorers of interpersonal connections and philosophy, but this backfires when what needs to be done is that TPS report sitting right in front of them. It's hard for ENFPs to maintain interest as tasks drift towards routine, administrative matters, and away from broader concepts.

Overthink Things – ENFPs don't take things at face value – they look for underlying motives in even the simplest things. It's not uncommon for ENFPs to lose a bit of sleep asking themselves why someone did what they did, what it might mean, and what to do about it.

Get Stressed Easily – All this overthinking isn't just for their own benefit – ENFPs, especially Turbulent ones, are very sensitive, and care deeply about others' feelings. A consequence of their popularity is that others often look to them for guidance and help, which takes time, and it's easy to see why ENFPs sometimes get overwhelmed, especially when they can't say yes to every request.

Highly Emotional – While emotional expression is healthy and natural, with ENFPs even viewing it as a core part of their identity, it can come out strongly enough to cause problems for this personality type. Particularly when under stress, criticism or conflict, ENFPs can experience emotional bursts that are counter-productive at best.

Independent to a Fault – ENFPs loathe being micromanaged and restrained by heavy-handed rules – they want to be seen as highly independent masters of their own fates, even possessors of an altruistic wisdom that goes beyond draconian law. The challenge for ENFPs is that they live in a world of checks and balances, a pill they are not happy to swallow.

Do you want to know your personality?
Take the test here

Thursday, July 9, 2015

Kelas Inspirasi Jelajah Pulau


I've promised to write about KIJP (Island Hopper) and now I have a certain mood to do that hhaaa...

Maybe all of people who are following my facebook know that I always join Kelas Inspirasi. Until last year, I already joined 3 of them in different region (Jakarta, Bogor, Depok) and I don't know how to stop it hhaaa.. So I am so interested when my school team from KI Depok invite us to join KIJP. Basically, KIJP's vision is want to encourage children who lived in an island with many type of profession. The place that we were take in is Thousand Island, Jakarta. They already hold 2 batch so I join their 3rd batch.

At first, I think it will be the same with the other KI. But I got it wrong. I like the way they communicate each other, make a great bounding and I believe their activity will be sustain for long time. When I was join this activity, they invite me to 3 whatsapp groups at one time: 1 group for documentary team, 1 group for school team, and the other is for island team. Not like other group in KI, this KIJP group became really big and the chat is going lively. The team really like to share anything, make bigger possibility to join other voluntary or charity events. I never feel like this before. For me who really introvert (yes I am :)) have  a lot of new friends that you can get along quickly from different ages is really something :""). It make me have another group for traveling (thanks Kak Marco for inviting me to your Bogor traveling group) and have another group for Kemang's campaign. It connecting me with people from different ages and different background.

Ok back to KIJP.

It was held in March (or April?) and I got Pulau Kelapa 1 for the school. We were going by the ship for one big group. This Kelapa Island group is the last team who still in the ship and it took 5 hours to get there.

We got a really nice homestay with a cold air conditioner (its very hot at there) and a great view with Bakau tree everywhere. Near from our homestay there are a small conservatory for Penyu, shark, cute fish, and mini Bakau tree.

There are alot of activities we held in Pulau Kelapa. Its three time busier than KI I used to join. We have to go to school and homestay back and forth. But its really worthed! I never forget of what we did at there...

Maybe from the concept and activity we still lack detail and everywhere but I'm happy that this time I really got something to be share...

and I'm really jealous with children there and inspirator. The inspirators already know what they want and they do that wholeheartedly.. They can make statement that being me is awesome so that they can inspire other to do something for themself.. And children still many years ahead to believing that they can do better than ours.

And me, still long journey for me to make something, to be the way I am... to believing my self, to make sure I'm happy with my decision..

Yap cheer up~ There are still many things that I want to do..

Wednesday, July 1, 2015

Ame x Momi Craft Workshop

Once I have a dream to open an art and craft studio consisting a lot of creative people. We can gather, disscuss, and make something that really useful for society through craft and art.

Wonderful dream, isn't it?

So I'm really happy when my mom want to make craft workshop. It was her initiative to share her hobby with other people. I think a lot of my friend wanted to learn crochet so this is really a good chance to make them gather.

Just one week preparation to make publication and there are around 9 person who want to join. But on the workshop day, it was just 7 people who could coming.

It's fun to do the workshop and I hope we will make another workshop in the future~~

Again and Again

When I turn around this corner
Why do I know that you’ll be here?
Across the rays of sunlight,
I can tell that you’re coming near.

Since this love is true, Some magic may happen
If this coincidence continues, 
isn’t it a hint of fate?

I like you too much
I like you too much
I love you way too much

This heart of mine is trembling
and now its really aching

I always try to give up
But I can't help
i will still like you again

I like you too much
I like you too much
I can’t see anyone other than you

Only you
Only you
Yet, I don’t want you to notice 

No matter how much i pray for it, 
i know this love won’t come true

But I can't help it
Everytime I breathe, 
i will like you again

I try to hide my feeling
But I think of you again

I can't help it
Everytime I breathe, 
i will like you again

I keep telling myself: 
"I can't go any further"
But  who knows chances may come at there

But then,
I realise this feeling of mine 
will not reaching you again

But then, still... 
this heart will like you again
I will love you again

untuk geng..
pasukan ga bisa move on...hahaaa 
-Inspired by Wishful Refrain - AKBgirls
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